Thirty Tips To Get Your Life Back After Divorce.

by Mary Moir on January 30, 2012

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Getting your life back on track after a divorce should be more about finding yourself rather than finding another partner. If you don’t know who you are and what you stand for you probably won’t have much luck finding a partner that shares or understands your values, sense of humour or passions. A divorce is [...]

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How can you say you didn’t know what you were doing when you bashed your wife or child?

January 12, 2012

Is screaming at your kids or verbally abusing your partner a reflection on how you feel about yourself? Where does the anger come from? How can you say you didn’t know what you were doing when you bashed your wife or child? Do you think your family has the right to feel safe in their [...]

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16 Things To Do If You Are Home Alone This Christmas.

December 23, 2011

Go to a mid-night church service – So that you can sleep in late. Prepare a breakfast tray before you go to bed – So that you all you have to do is make the coffee and carry the whole lot back to bed. Have a very long shower or bath – use loads of [...]

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HAPPY CHRISTMAS OR LONELY CHRISTMAS THE CHOICE IS YOURS.

December 23, 2011

You can spoil yourself and feel good about it! Get up early and go for a walk. Make yourself a full cooked breakfast, with freshly ground coffee. Telephone friends and family that live abroad or that you won’t see over the next few days- be brief – A quick Happy Christmas and get off the [...]

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Christmas Magic

December 20, 2011

Don’t take the magic away from your children. I have just read Paul Henry’s memoirs, ‘What Was I Thinking’, a good read. In his book he says he realised he wasn’t keeping the magic with his children, so he got busy and made more magic, he made more of Santa Claus, they went looking for [...]

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Random Sex At Christmas

December 15, 2011

Will you be having random sex this year? We are truly into the party season – ‘tis the season to be merry, but that doesn’t need to include catching an STD or doing anything you might regret tomorrow or next year. How many times have you heard someone say, “OMG, I don’t believe I did [...]

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What Are You Contributing To Your Child’s Life When You

December 9, 2011

Here is a question – ‘what am I contributing to my child’s life experience when I……?’ Add some of these or make up some of your own, • Come home drunk. • Scream and abuse their father. • Tell them to get lost when I’m busy. • Fail to thank them for their help. • [...]

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Life Is How You See It

December 1, 2011

‘You are not old until regret replaces your dreams.’ Anon. Life can be full of opportunities or full of memories of missed opportunities. How do you know when there is an opportunity for you? You’ll see opportunities when you are open to learning, to seeing another point of view, when you can accept other people [...]

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STEP AWAY FROM THE CHILDREN

November 28, 2011

Divert Your Anger Your Kids Don’t Need It Do you feel guilty for shouting at your kids, maybe you have struck them in anger. Are you really able to justify losing your temper with a child? Yes, they can be irritating, but there are ways of managing their behaviour that don’t involve shouting or abusing [...]

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Forgiveness After Divorce.

November 23, 2011

Forgiveness After Divorce. Of course we all hope for a new life after divorce. We hope that our perfect partner will appear and make everything just fine. However, a big part of moving on and becoming ready for a new relationship is forgiveness. “Forgiveness is letting go of your resentment, disappointment, anger and hurt. When [...]

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