What Are You Contributing To Your Child’s Life When You
by Mary Moir on December 9, 2011
in blog,Parenting Advice
Here is a question – ‘what am I contributing to my child’s life experience when I……?’
Add some of these or make up some of your own,
• Come home drunk.
• Scream and abuse their father.
• Tell them to get lost when I’m busy.
• Fail to thank them for their help.
• Fail to notice good behaviour.
• Ignore them.
And try these,
• Take every opportunity to say I love them.
• Notice and praise their good behaviour.
• Get down to their level, look them in the eye and listen.
• Reassure them when they look worried.
Go ahead, reflect on what you have contributed to your child’s life experience over the last couple of days.
Anything you need to change?
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Here is a question – ‘what am I contributing to my child’s life experience when I……?’