How did you choose your partner?

When you are looking to buy anything you usually have a good idea of exactly what you are looking for. Maybe you are looking for shoes, a car, a holiday, before you make a decision you make sure that the item ticks as many of the boxes on your list as possible. If it doesn’t you move on and look for a better match, and so on until you are sure you are making the best choice.

Did you make a shopping list when you went out to look for a partner?   Why not?  It’s not as bad as it sounds.

Many people I know met their partners while they were under the influence of whatever was popular at the time, or they happened to get on well at work – sometimes it works out, but you only have to look a the divorce rates to see that it often doesn’t work.

So why not make a shopping list – my ideal partner would have the following qualities, kind, considerate, sense of humour, same politics, sporty, romantic  – make your own list!

If you are in a relationship and want to make the best of it, there’s more on this in the member’s area and a section in “How to Get Your Life Back”, e-book on this site.my office This is a picture of where I’m working today!



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